John Hawkins
speaks here of Massachusetts lawmakers trying to make spanking illegal in their state. If this passes on a state level I'll support it there. I would not agree with it but I would support the citizens of that state's right to govern themselves thusly. However, a decision like this
should be made only on the state level.
I myself fully support spanking even though I often times found myself on the recieveing end of it when growing up. Some of the times the spanking crossed the line into sexual abuse. My step-father would bind my hands to his bed, lay me across his lap fully naked, while he himself clothed in nothing but his underwear and proceed to spank me with a large oak paddle. On a number of occasions this left large brusies and blood collecting just under the skin. It very much was abuse. However, while what I did each of these times warranted a spanking the severity to which my deceased step-father went was inexcusable. And that is the key. A parent should never strike their child while angry (as he did) and the child needs to understand clearly why this is being done and to have no doubt in their mind that their parent's care deeply for them.
This is not a "lack of imagination on the parent's part" as one ignorant commentor to Mr. Hawkins post suggests. It's a time-tested proven course of dicipline. It works and if the kid is in a well adjusted household he'll grow up knowing he deserved it and it did him good.